Monday 31 January 2011

How to Be Wise

How to Be Wise

Wisdom is not book learning, not instantly
obtainable, and not something you're gifted with
at birth. Indeed, wisdom defies exact definition
for to define it too tightly would be to curtail
the breadth of its potential for self-growth.
Wisdom comes with time, experience, and the
willingness to maintain an open-mind about the
world and all its people. While wisdom
accumulates over the years, it requires constant
filtering to remove the prejudices and bias that
also accumulate, as well as constant reflection
and a willingness to challenge one's own beliefs
and values on occasion.

The essence of wisdom tends to be lauded in all cultures, and is often
viewed as a state that leaves you calm, able to think through things
before acting upon them, and not be someone who is easily caught up by
the myriad fads and crazes pulsing through society at any time. Wisdom
includes an ability to stand back and take in the bigger picture while
still admiring the details that make things function well. With time,
a wise person grows deeper in knowledge but does not abuse that
knowledge by shutting out others or claiming to be the sole repository
of ideas and answers; instead, a wise person willingly shares what
they have learned and enables the growth of others willing to listen.

Confucius once said that "By three methods we may learn wisdom: First,
by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is
easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest." These ideas
are explored throughout the article, which is a starter guide for the
person keen to focus a little more on the gaining of wisdom.

!! Steps !!

_ Know yourself. While time-consuming and
sometimes challenging, it is still easier to learn about everything
and everyone else in the world than about yourself. The hardest
journey is often the one that requires looking inside yourself
honestly to work out what drives you and what beliefs, opinions [1],
and biases you hold within. Unless you're willing to know yourself
well and learn to love both the strengths and weaknesses within you,
it is difficult to be wise. If you don't know yourself, you're more
likely to succumb to covering up weaknesses [2] and overplaying
strengths instead of practicing self-acceptance and being honest.
Knowing yourself provides the space in which you can err, grow, and
forgive yourself [3] as you journey through life.

* Be careful of the term "self-improvement [4]". While this term
means well, it presumes we're all a mess at the core and need
sorting. Even if that is true, it does not help you any to be
vulnerable to the advice drawn from another person's journey and
to try and replace your experiences with theirs. By all means
learn from the experiences of others who have made journeys of
self-discovery but don't make the mistake of believing that their
journey is the right one for you or that you can simply replace
your experiences with theirs. You must do the hard work alone.

* Be wary of any self-improvement advice that claims to have
"secrets". The only "secret" to self-improvement is that it
requires hard work and constancy. Beyond that, you can fiddle at
the edges (attested to remarkably by the massive success of the
self-help industry) but you cannot change the reality of having to
do the work of personal introspection and reflection [5] on the
world yourself.

Realize that you know nothing. The wisest of
people have long been those who realize they
actually know very little – often in spite of
decades of learning and reflecting. The more
you think about people, things, and events, the
more it becomes clear that there is always more
to know and that what you do know is but a
pinhead amid all knowledge. Acceptance of the
limitations of your own knowledge is a key to
wisdom.

* One of the key barriers to wisdom is over-reliance on or
expectation of "expertise [6]". We live in a world sold on the
importance of expertise as a panacea for everything, including our
own effort of thinking. Granted, many (certifiable) experts are
clever and they do know a lot about their specialty. But to equate
expertise with wisdom is to conflate the meanings of each term –
expertise refers to someone's high level of knowledge in a
distinct field, whereas wisdom refers to the broader concept of
being able to see the bigger picture of life, to have considered
responsiveness to all the things life throws at us, to live calmly
[7] reassured of life's purpose, and to never assume that there is
necessarily an answer but still to be comfortable living with that
reality.

* Mary Jaksch advises that now and then we need to adopt "beginner's
mind".[1] [8] This is the mind of a person starting afresh, being
challenged anew by doing something that you've never done before.
This brings excitement into your life as well as having the
potential to unnerve you because you're not an "expert" at it. In
addition, she advocates "don't know" mind, a martial arts [9]
mindset that reflects the wisdom of the warrior. Rather than
prejudging situations by what you do know, keep your mind open and
tell yourself that "I don't know" and allow yourself to learn.
When you cease to have a fixed idea of people, things, and
situations surrounding you, you grow in wisdom because you soak up
changes, new ideas, and don't set any person above or beneath you.

*

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[1] http://www.wikihow.com/Form-an-Opinion
[2] http://www.wikihow.com/Communicate-Your-Weaknesses
[3] http://www.wikihow.com/Forgive-Yourself
[4] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Okay-with-Being-You
[5] http://www.wikihow.com/Reflect
[6] http://www.wikihow.com/Spread-Your-Knowledge
[7] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Calm
[8] http://bemoreconfident.info/#_note-0
[9] http://www.wikihow.com/Choose-a-Martial-Art
[10] http://www.wikihow.com/Learn-a-Language-by-Listening-to-the-Radio
[11] http://www.wikihow.com/Contemplate-Life
[12] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Couch-Potato
[13] http://www.wikihow.com/Do-Strategic-Planning
[14] http://www.wikihow.com/Find-a-Mentor
[15] http://www.wikihow.com/Give-a-Feedback-Sandwich
[16] http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Philosopher
[17] http://www.wikihow.com/Category:Sports-and-Fitness
[18] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Happy
[19] http://www.wikihow.com/Strengthen-Character
[20] http://www.wikihow.com/Reframe-the-Past
[21] http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Suffering-in-Silence
[22] http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Indispensable
[23] http://www.wikihow.com/Listen
[24] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Humble
[25] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Gentle-Person
[26] http://www.wikihow.com/Love-an-Imperfect-Woman
[27] http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Generalizations-in-Writing-by-Incorporating-Details
[28] http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Personal-Prejudice
[29] http://www.wikihow.com/Use-Spirituality-in-Improving-Quality-of-Life
[30] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Responsible
[31] http://www.wikihow.com/Respect-Parents
[32] http://www.wikihow.com/Gain-Control-of-Your-Emotions
[33] http://www.wikihow.com/Category:Emotional-Health
[34] http://www.wikihow.com/Simplify-Your-Life
[35] http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Distractions
[36] http://www.wikihow.com/Watch-Less-TV
[37] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Man-of-the-World
[38] http://www.wikihow.com/Share-Your-Copyrighted-Article-on-wikiHow
[39] http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Trust
[40] http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Elitists
[41] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Smart
[42] http://www.wikihow.com/Stay-Smart
[43] http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Question-Intelligently
[44] http://www.wikihow.com/Cultivate-Compassion-in-Your-Life
[45] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Gentle-Person

Sunday 30 January 2011

How to Make a Puzzle

How to Make a Puzzle

Making a homemade puzzle is a simple and yet
unique task. You mainly use household items, so
don't worry about an extra shopping trip! Follow
the simple steps to learn how to make your own
puzzle.

!! Steps !!

* Gather the supplies needed. These are listed in the "Things You'll
Need" section below.
_ A scene drawn by ink and colored pencilsDraw a scene on a
sheet of cardstock paper. You can also use card covers,
collages, and posters as long as they're on thick paper. The
following list suggests mediums you may want to use:

* Oil paint [1]

* Watercolor paints [2]

* Crayons [3]

* Colored pencils [4]

* Watercolor pencils [5]

* Take a photo of the finished picture and have
it printed. You'll need this printed reminder to help you piece
together the puzzle after it's finished!

* Glue [6] or tape the top of the puzzle to
some cereal box cardboard if you want to make the puzzle even
thicker and more durable. Otherwise, move on to the next step.

* Lay the picture, up-side facing downward, on a cutting board.
The drawing of the gridStart drawing a 1" x 1" (2.5cm x 2.5cm)
or so grid on the back_ of the picture. Use a ruler [7] if
needed. After finished move on to the next step.

* The finished gridThe finished grid.

* Titling the cornersIf you want, title the corners of the
puzzle, therefore making it easier to piece together.

Cutting the puzzle with the exacto-knifeCut the puzzle using an
exacto-knife or similar craft knife [8]. Be sure to cut on the
grid lines.

* Cutting the columnsFirst cut into columns, then into squares.

* The scrambled puzzle Scramble the puzzle pieces. Enjoy putting
your puzzle [9] back together again!

!! Video !!

!! Tips !!

* When thinking of things to put on or to form the picture, be
creative! Even just printing a picture off of your computer will
work as long as it's printed on cardboard.

* If possible, consider making curved instead of straight cuts so
the pieces can be put together more easily.

!! Warnings !!

* Always be careful when handling an exacto-knife! If you are young,
you should have one of your parents help you with this.

!! Things You\'ll Need !!

* A picture; drawing, coloring, printed off photo

* Card-stock paper

* Camera

* Cereal-box cardboard

* Cutting board (the type used for cutting craft paper or quilt
fabric is ideal)

* Ink pen

* Ruler

* Exacto knife

* Printer

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Make a Raised Puzzle [10]

* How to Make a Piñata [11]

* How to Assemble a 3D Puzzle [12]

* How to Make a Popsicle Stick Puzzle [13]

!! Article Tools !!

* Read on wikiHow

*

Links:
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[1] http://www.wikihow.com/Oil-Paint
[2] http://www.wikihow.com/Paint-With-Watercolors-as-a-Novice
[3] http://www.wikihow.com/Create-Crayons
[4] http://www.wikihow.com/Draw-With-Color-Pencils
[5] http://www.wikihow.com/Use-Watercolor-Pencils
[6] http://www.wikihow.com/Use-a-Glue-Gun
[7] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:DSCN2339.JPG
[8] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:DSCN2354.JPG
[9] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:DSCN2356.JPG
[10] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Raised-Puzzle
[11] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Pi%C3%B1ata
[12] http://www.wikihow.com/Assemble-a-3D-Puzzle
[13] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Popsicle-Stick-Puzzle

How to Make an Anniversary Gift Basket

How to Make an Anniversary Gift Basket

Whether it's your first or 50th anniversary, each
anniversary should be celebrated in a special and
memorable way!

One way is to give each other gifts. What's even better is an
anniversary gift basket, which can hold many gifts at once in a pretty
basket. Don't know what to get? How to decorate? Have a low budget? No
problem. In this article, you'll find some guidance.

!! Steps !!

Gather the basic supplies. Of course, you'll
need a basket, a sufficiently sized one. Wicker
baskets [1] are most commonly used because it
has an old-fashioned sense. Other supplies for
the basket include cellophane, ribbons,
flowers, fabric, paper doily, gift tag, card,
and/or bows.

* Stick with a theme on your basket. For example, if you choose your
basket to be classy and simple, pick "cool" colors, such as white,
lavender, light blue, etc. If you choose a cheery and bright
basket, pick "warm" colors, like orange, yellow, red, etc.

Begin preparing the gift basket. Just a basket
of gifts is great but if you want more, this
will add value to its overall appearance:

* Place a fabric or paper doily [2] in the basket to cover the
bottom and its sides; it's okay if excess is folded over the
edges. Almost any fabric is fine, such as cotton or silk [3].

* Next, you may wish to put some cottony cushion on the bottom above
the fabric so the gifts will rest snuggly and make your gift
basket appear larger. Add bows [4] to the side, ribbons on the
handle, and/or attach a gift tag [5].

Purchase or create your own homemade gifts. Depending on what
gender the recipient is, think of gifts to give to your loved one.
To make it even more special and thoughtful, try making some or all
of the contents on your own! Here are some suggestions:

* *For Your Wife*: fine jewelry, warm scarf
[6], tasty chocolate, a beautiful bouquet, a classy purse [7],
pleasant perfume, fancy soap, pair of glamorous shoes, plush
pillow, scented candles [8], pocket journal, soft small blanket,
wonderful books, digital camera [9], gift certificates (spa),
theatre tickets, small beautiful painting, personalized photo and
frame, ultimate makeup kit [10], personalized mug, and delicious
cookies.

* *For Your Husband*: high-quality camera,
steel watch, pleasant cologne, personalized mug, fancy soap, tasty
chocolate, delicious cookies [11], personalized photo and frame,
glass cups set, leather wallet [12], portable radio, flannel
shirts, silk tie, USB key chain, classic pocket watch, small book
clock, silver pocket knife [13].

* Arrange the gifts in the basket. Place the heavier items at the
bottom, while lighter ones will sit easily on the top. If
something is breakable, secure it and/or wrap it in some fabric.
Center the tall items in the middle of the basket. Keep everything
nice and neat.

* Write the card [14]. Leave a loving message
in a decorated card. You can slip in gift cards if you wish. You
can place it in the basket, or give it to them manually.

* Wrap the whole basket with cellophane. This
is optional, but it prevents the gifts from spilling out and
protects them from outside disturbances. Cut a large piece of
cellophane, big enough to wrap the basket. Position the basket in
the middle. Get hold of the sides, and bring them up (you may have
a helper). Secure it by tying an elegant ribbon [15] at the top.

!! Video !!

!! Tips !!

* Homemade gifts are usually better because it shows that you care
to spend some time creating the gift just for them. Perhaps you
can throw in some, such as homemade cookies and/or a homemade
card.

* Remember to stick with a theme! You don't want so many colors to
clash together.

* *Less is more.* Don't overcrowd your basket. It might look a bit
messy if you do. Keep it proper and simple, but still a beautiful
basket.

* You don't necessarily need to use a basket. Other containers, such
as a casserole dish or serving bowl, are great to use as well!

* Flowers add a sweet touch! You can "sprinkle" individual flowers
all around. They can be fake since real ones would die soon.

* If you choose to use cellophane, they can be any color relating to
the theme. It may even have some pattern on it!

!! Things You\'ll Need !!

* Basket (or container)

* Cellophane

* Ribbons

* Ready-made bows

* Fabric or paper doily

* Gift tag

* Card

* Purchased/homemade gifts to place in basket

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Create a Beautiful Gift Basket [16]

* How to Make Creative Gifts [17]

* How to Make Holiday Gifts for Your Friends [18]

* How to Make Decorative Holiday Gift Tags [19]

* How to Make a Flower to Attach on Gift Bags [20]

* How to Give a Great Gift to Someone [21]

* How to Buy the Perfect Gift on a Budget [22]

!! Article Tools !!

* Read on wikiHow

*

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[1] http://www.wikihow.com/Arrange-a-Fruit-Basket
[2] http://www.wikihow.com/Reinvent-Linens
[3] http://www.wikihow.com/Tie-a-Silk-Scarf
[4] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Bow
[5] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Gift-Tags
[6] http://www.wikihow.com/Knit-a-Scarf
[7] http://www.wikihow.com/Create-a-Purse-from-a-Backpack
[8] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Scented-Candle-in-a-Glass
[9] http://www.wikihow.com/Buy-a-Digital-Camera
[10] http://www.wikihow.com/Put-Together-a-Makeup-Kit
[11] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Gluten-Free-Chocolate-Chip-Cookie-Bars
[12] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Ribbon-Wallet
[13] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Pocket-Survival-Kit-%28Temperate-Climate%29
[14] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Beaded-Card
[15] http://www.wikihow.com/Curl-Ribbon
[16] http://www.wikihow.com/Create-a-Beautiful-Gift-Basket
[17] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Creative-Gifts
[18] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Holiday-Gifts-for-Your-Friends
[19] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Decorative-Holiday-Gift-Tags
[20] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Flower-to-Attach-on-Gift-Bags
[21] http://www.wikihow.com/Give-a-Great-Gift-to-Someone
[22] http://www.wikihow.com/Buy-the-Perfect-Gift-on-a-Budget

How to Use the All Mangas Reader Google Chrome Extension

How to Use the All Mangas Reader Google Chrome Extension

All Mangas Reader is a Google Chrome Extension
that allows you to keep track of the manga you're
reading online, as well as keeping a record of
all the mangas you've read, and notifying you
when they're updated.

The current version (version 1.2.8 onwards) supports 13 different
manga sites, including Manga Fox and Manga Reader (See the "Tips"
section for a full list). Read on to learn how to use it.

!! Steps !!

* Make sure that you have Google Chrome
installed [1]. When you have done so, go to the gallery at
https://chrome.google.com/extensions/?hl=en [2] extensions and
look for the "All Mangas Reader".

* Download the All Mangas Reader. You can do that at
https://chrome.google.com/extensions/detail/gcamgngbdaiibdbikdfmjinnmgoppecp?hl=en
[3].
Start adding some manga! This can be done in one of two ways:

* Click on the "All Mangas Reader" button at the top right of your
browser. At the bottom it will say "Pick a new manga". Choose a
site and pick or search for a manga [4]. Clicking on one will
result in you being taken to the manga page in question. Once you
start reading it, it will automatically be added to your reading
list.

* If you're not sure which sites a particular manga is hosted at,
simply click the magnifying glass symbol from the buttons on the
top right when you open the extension. Enter the name of a manga,
and it will come up with a list of all the supported sites that
manga is hosted at. You can click on a manga page listed there and
you'll be taken to that site, from where you can start reading [5]
immediately.

* Simply start reading a manga at any of those six websites.
Anything you read will be added to your reading list.

* Customize! Once you open the extension, there will be a button at
the top right labelled "All Mangas Reader Options". From there,
you can choose the style of your manga list, whether to remove
advertising on the manga websites, whether to load the whole
chapter in one webpage [6], as well as being able to scroll down
them or click through each page in turn, etc.

* Use your Manga list. The mangas you have started reading will
be displayed in alphabetical order, except for the ones with
chapters that you have not read yet, which will be at the top in
red. It lists all of the names of the mangas, the logos of the
websites where you read them, the latest chapter you read and the
latest chapter that was updated. The navigation buttons at the top
right of each manga name link to the previous manga chapter, the
last chapter you read, the next chapter, the latest chapter
available and to delete the manga from your reading list
respectively. For any mangas that you have not opened the latest
chapter of (in red at the top), there will also be an eye-shaped
button on the left of the others, enabling you to mark the latest
chapter as read.

* Check for updates. As long as you\'re connected to the
internet [7], the All Mangas Reader extension will show how many
mangas there are in your reading list that have uploaded chapters
you have not seen yet.

!! Tips !!

The All Mangas Reader Google Chrome Extension (version 1.2.8 onwards)
supports:

* Some Manga / Some Mango

* Manga Fox

* Bleach Exile

* Manga Reader

* Manga Stream

* MangaToshokan

* AnimeA

* Mangable

* CityManga

* The Spectrum

* MangaKong

* AnimeStory (French scans)

* SubManga (Spanish scans)

* Manga will load down the page like this, instead of having to
click through one by one.One of the main benefits of using the
extension is that it loads every page of the manga chapter on one
page, so you just scroll down through them, rather than clicking
through each page like you would on most manga sites. If you
prefer clicking through however, just go to the options button at
the top right of the extension, and on the resulting page check or
uncheck the box labelled "While reading a manga, display the whole
chapter instead of the current page".

* On the options page there is also the choice to "Load scans in the
order of the chapter". This will make the overall loading time a
little slower, but will load it so that the first page is fully
loaded first before the second page starts to load, etc. rather
than just loading them all at once.

* If any of the mangas you're reading become completed, you might
want to remove them from your reading list to declutter it.

* To keep a complete record of the mangas you've read, you could try
a site like myanimelist,[1] [8] which has lots of information on
manga and allows you to write reviews, etc. but it doesn't notify
you of any updates.

* If there are any new versions of the extension, just go back to
the extension page[2] [9] and click "download". None of your data
will be lost, and the extension will just update itself to the
latest version.

!! Things You\'ll Need !!

* Google Chrome

* All Mangas Reader extension

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Download Google Chrome [10]

* How to Use Google Chrome [11]

* How to Be an Otaku (Anime Geek) [12]

* How to Get Into Manga [13]

* How to Read Manga [14]

* How to Use Awesome Screenshot [15]

!! Sources And Citations !!

!! Article Tools !!

* Read on wikiHow

*

Links:
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[1] http://www.wikihow.com/Download-Google-Chrome
[2] https://chrome.google.com/extensions/?hl=en
[3] https://chrome.google.com/extensions/detail/gcamgngbdaiibdbikdfmjinnmgoppecp?hl=en
[4] http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Into-Manga
[5] http://www.wikihow.com/Read-Naruto-Manga-Online-Free
[6] http://www.wikihow.com/Build-a-Simple-Web-Page
[7] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:AMR_logo_920.png
[8] http://bemoreconfident.info/#_note-0
[9] http://bemoreconfident.info/#_note-1
[10] http://www.wikihow.com/Download-Google-Chrome
[11] http://www.wikihow.com/Use-Google-Chrome
[12] http://www.wikihow.com/Be-an-Otaku-%28Anime-Geek%29
[13] http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Into-Manga
[14] http://www.wikihow.com/Read-Manga
[15] http://www.wikihow.com/Use-Awesome-Screenshot

How to Make a Bakugan Knight Pendant

How to Make a Bakugan Knight Pendant

Pyrus, Aquos, and Ventus Castle Knight pendants. As seen on the TV
show Bakugan: Gundalian Invaders, the Castle Knights of Neathia wear
a special necklace with a pendant that serves as an ID tag as well as
a symbol of the bond between a Castle Knight and his or her partner
Bakugan.

This guide will show you how to make a simple and stylish replica of
this pendant, using shrinkable clear plastic, paint, and common
jewelry materials.

!! Steps !!

Some of the supplies and tools you will need. Gather your tools and
supplies. These are listed below in "Things You'll Need". Look for
supplies in large box stores that stock craft items as well as craft
shops and hobby stores.

* Children working on this project will require the help and
supervision of an adult, as sharp scissors and an oven will be
used. The aid of an adult may be needed for certain steps which
require attention to small details. The time it takes to complete
this project will include three minutes for baking and between 15
and 30 minutes for fusing.

This site gives you a tiny link to click. Download and print out the
pattern sheet. This is currently only available as a PDF file which
you can find at
http://www.2shared.com/document/T9COyD5v/bakugan_pendant_pattern2.html.
The download link is near the bottom of the page (see image). Once
you have the PDF file, print it out full-size on a regular piece of
letter-size paper.

* Prepare your workspace. First, tape the pattern down (printed side
face-up) onto the surface of your workspace. Then, place a sheet
of Shrinky Dinks plastic (frosted side up!) on top of the pattern,
and tape it down at the edges as well. This will help to keep both
pieces in place as you work.

* The purpose of this pencil line will be to show you where
to cut the plastic once you're done painting the rest of the
pattern. Use the pencil to trace the outer diamond-shaped line of
the pattern for the pendant you wish to make. Notice that there
are six different pendant patterns on the page, one for each
attribute of Bakugan. You will only be tracing the outside line of
this pattern for this step.
Most Painters markers come with medium tips, which make
it a bit difficult to render fine details such as the
pointed part of this Pyrus symbol. You may use a
fine-tipped paintbrush to move paint into points in the
design if you wish. Color in the attribute symbol in the
center of the pattern with the Painters paint marker. Try
to only fill in the space inside the lines; when the
plastic is baked later, the painted areas will puff out
slightly and fill out the design more. Allow the paint to
dry before continuing on to the next step.

* If the marker is new, or isn't painting well, you will need to
prime it; shake the marker up and down for a couple of minutes
(you should eventually hear the agitator sliding back and forth
inside the marker), then press the marker tip down onto a scrap
piece of thick paper or cardboard so that the tip retracts into
the marker. Paint will start to flow into the spongy tip. It will
easily make a mess, so be careful when doing this step!

Mind the gap! Be careful only to color inside the lines of the
pattern, and not to the pencil edge. This blank gap around the silver
area is necessary later on during fusing. Use the silver Sharpie or
silver paint to color in the triangular "finials" on the top and
bottom of the pattern. Allow this to dry before going on to the next
step.

* Using the pencil, trace the outer diamond-shaped line of the
pattern _next_ to the pattern you have been working on. This piece
will remain blank, and will be used later on during fusing as the
bottom piece which seals the design is inside the pendant. Simply
tracing the outer edge of an adjacent pattern to get this piece
saves you from having to move and re-tape the plastic.

* Remove the tape holding the plastic down onto the workspace.

* A Haos pendant piece that has been cut out. Use the
scissors to cut out the pieces. Remember to cut only along the
pencil lines that mark the outer edges of these pieces.

* Lay the piece against a piece of white paper to check for
pencil marks that you may have missed. Use the eraser on the
pencil to remove the pencil edges from the pieces. Make sure to
remove all of the pencil marks; they will not be included in the
final piece. Also be sure to keep the pieces clean from eraser
filings resulting from erasing.

* Prepare the oven for the baking process. Preheat the
oven to 325ºF (163ºC) and allow it to warm up as you prepare the
cookie sheet. Take the parchment paper and cut a piece that covers
the cookie sheet. Then, take the pendant pieces and lay them
frosted side up on the paper as shown in the picture. Once the
oven has reached the desired temperature, go on to the next step.
The Shrinky Dinks manual recommends you watch the pieces
not only for this reason, but because it's just plain
interesting as well. The length of the piece
prior to baking. The length of the piece after
baking. As you can see, this blank piece
should have had an eye kept it as it was being baked.
Carefully place the cookie sheet inside the oven and
allow the pieces to bake for 3 minutes. As they bake,
they will shrink (they are Shrinky Dinks after all) as
well as become nine times thicker.

* It is important to watch them during this process as they run the
danger of curling up and sticking to themselves, thus preventing
them from flattening out properly. Grab a chair and sit where you
can see the pieces as they draw up, and keep the pair of wooden
skewers or chopsticks on hand to reach into the oven and pull the
pieces apart if they start curling into themselves. (Children
should have an adult do this.)

* Once the 3 minutes have passed, take the cookie sheet out of the
oven and lay it on a heat-safe surface (or potholders) and allow
the pieces to cool. Then, turn the oven temperature up to 450ºF
(230ºC) and allow it to heat up. While you're waiting, work on
the next step.

The metal eye loop in its original form. _ Bend it a few
times with the pliers before deciding where to cut it off.
For this one, a larger loop was created at the bottom end. Prepare
the metal eye loop. This tiny piece of wire will be fused inside the
pendant and will be used to hang it from a necklace chain. See the
photos at right for how to bend the wire and cut off the excess with
the jewelry pliers (you will need to bend the wire a bit at the
non-loop end so that it cannot be easily yanked out of the pendant
after fusing). The wire must not be so long that it extends past the
silver "finial" into the clear part of the pendant, but also not so
short that you can't get a lot of bends into it.

* The empty Pyrex dish. The blank piece with the
eye loop on top, supported by the flat toothpick. All
of the pieces are now ready for fusing. Make sure you don't place
your pendant with the symbol turned upside-down! Prepare all of
the pieces for fusing. Get the Pyrex dish and begin layering the
pieces inside it. The blank piece is laid frosted side down on the
glass first; the eye loop is then laid at one end of the blank
piece, then the painted piece is laid frosted side down with the
top end on top of the eye loop. A flat toothpick is placed under
the exposed part of the eye loop to keep it from touching the
glass.
The dish in the oven, prior to any fusing taking place.
The piece after fusing. The wire may or may not
show through the "finial"; either way, this is perfectly
fine. Carefully_ place the Pyrex dish containing the
pieces inside the oven and allow them to bake for 15 to
30 minutes. During this time, the top piece will melt
into the bottom piece, turning them into a single piece.
The frosted surfaces will flatten, causing the pendant to
turn clear.

* Check the pendant after 15 minutes to see if the fusing has
completed; it is likely that the silver-painted ends will still
need a few more minutes to fuse. Once you are satisfied with the
result, remove the dish from the oven and set it on a heat-safe
surface. The dish _must_ be cool to the touch before moving on to
the next step!

* Wiggle wiggle, and it comes loose. Notice the plastic
bits left behind. Free! In some cases, you may end up
with some air bubbles around the symbol. That's fine Carefully
remove the finished pendant from the Pyrex dish. Grab the pendant
near the middle with the thumb and index fingers of both hands,
and gently wiggle it back and forth, gradually applying more
pressure, until it comes loose from the dish. There may be some
clear plastic left on the dish where the edges of the pendant
touched the glass; this can be easily removed with a safety razor.

* Also be careful not to bend the eye loop while sanding
the upper edges. Sand any sharp edges. Your pendant may end up
with some sharp or jagged edges where it was touching the glass.
Use the fine-grain sandpaper to dull these edges. Be careful not
to scratch the smooth plastic on top of the pendant.

* The open ring with the pendant hanging from it. Use the
pliers to open the jump ring, then slide the open ring through the
eye loop on the pendant. Remember to open the ring by bending it
sideways, instead of pulling it open.

* The open ring with the chain inserted. The
jump ring, closed. Take the ball chain and insert it inside the
open ring. Simple enough. Afterwards, close the jump ring.
Alternatively, you could close the jump ring first (bending it
sideways until the ends meet), then undo the chain and slide it
through the ring.

* Ready to wear! Your Castle Knight pendant necklace is
complete! Wear it to your next Bakugan tournament meet and impress
your opponents.

!! Tips !!

* These were made using pearlescent paints. Notice how the
symbols have a somewhat glittery look to them. Use pearlescent
Painters markers to create a sparkly effect on your attribute
symbol.

* This Haos pendant was made using yellow Sharpie. If you
wish for your symbol to be transparent, use regular colored
Sharpie markers.

* Linus' Castle Knight pendant from the Bakugan anime.
Don't worry if your first pendant doesn't come out looking
perfect. There are bound to be a few imperfections, due to the
somewhat chaotic nature of Shrinky Dinks plastic.

!! Warnings !!

* Since sharp scissors are involved, be careful not to cut yourself.

* Be mindful of the oven and use an oven-safe hand mitten to handle
the hot cookie sheet and Pyrex dish.

* Children will need an adult to help them with the oven and bending
the wire, and possibly with cutting the plastic and arranging the
items to be fused in the Pyrex dish. An adult should supervise the
child at all times during the project.

* During the fusing process, there may be a slight scent of burning
plastic. Be mindful of this if you have an aversion to this scent.

!! Things You'll Need !!

* Shrinky Dinks Frosted Rough 'n' Ready shrinkable plastic
Painters opaque paint markers in the colors you wish to use:

* Pink for Pyrus

* Light Blue for Aquos

* Light Green for Ventus

* Light Yellow or Gold for Haos

* Light Purple for Darkus

* Light Brown or Tan for SubTerra

* A pencil with an eraser (preferably a .7 lead mechanical pencil)

* Silver Sharpie marker -OR- silver acrylic paint

* A silver-colored metal eye pin jewelry finding

* A silver-colored jump ring jewelry finding

* A silver-colored 24'' (60.9cm) ball chain

* A roll of tape

* A large pair of scissors

* A pair of wire-cutting jewelry pliers

* A piece of fine-grain sandpaper

* A Pyrex (recommended) or otherwise oven-safe glass dish

* A toaster oven or a conventional oven

* A cookie sheet (baking tray)

* A pair of long wooden skewers or chopsticks

* Parchment paper (baking paper) or wax paper

* Some flat toothpicks (as opposed to round ones)

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Embellish a Belt Buckle with a Pendant or Charm

* How to Make a Stacked Fused Glass Pendant

* How to Make a Pendant Necklace

* How to Play Bakugan

* How to Find a Rare Bakugan

!! Article Tools !!

* Read on wikiHow

*

Saturday 29 January 2011

How to Trust Your Boyfriend

How to Trust Your Boyfriend

Do you love him? Do you trust him? Trust is a key element in having
a strong and lasting relationship with your boyfriend. Without trust,
your relationship will slowly fall apart, as Frank Crane once made
clear when he said that while _"you may be deceived if you trust too
much, [...] you will live in torment if you do not trust enough."_

How do you regain trust that has slipped away because of little things
that niggle you or cause you to feel he isn't as responsive or
attentive as perhaps he ought to be? In this article, you'll have the
chance to explore the ways in which you can learn to trust you
boyfriend and move into another stage of your relationship.

!! Steps !!

Acknowledge why you don't trust your boyfriend. There can be a
number of reasons, from not hearing from him, lack of contact, or
something someone else said. Your own instinct tends to add its
overlay of worry too, adding up things that may or may not be
important. Some of the reasons why your trust may be tested include:

* You have been privy to a recent revelation about him that casts
suspicions on his trustworthiness

* You have had an argument with him and it not only left you feeling
sour but left many questions unanswered

* You feel that he has betrayed your trust in him by something that
he has done, said, or openly acknowledged to you

* You feel that he is slipping away - there are less calls, he's not
coming around to see you much, or he seems to be seeing other
people without asking you along too

* You have some other reason for not trusting him.

Take it slowly and calm yourself down. Paranoia over the fact that
you don't trust him will can cause you to deepen your mistrust
rather than to want to seek some valid answers. Whatever has
happened to set off your suspicions, it's more than likely that you
don't have the full story or perhaps you're not even seeing all the
relevant events properly. Before you discard all trust, it is
important to do some thinking, questioning, and following up, to get
the story straight. Focus on what is at stake and the importance of
the relationship, no matter how hard it may seem and no matter how
tempting it is to prefer assuming a negative viewpoint of him.

Think about your past relationships. Have they ended in heartbreak,
mistrust, and anger? If so, you may be primed to be suspicious about
a subsequent boyfriend's motives. Having someone betray your trust
hurts, and can carry on into your next relationship. If this is the
case, talk to your boyfriend about your past relationship (or
relationships) and tell him what happened and why it hurt you. Not
only will doing this increase your trust in him, he will be able to
understand what lies behind your paranoia. Depending on the type of
guy he is, he may even be able to help you work through the
challenge.

* If you're stuck in an emotional situation where you don't feel
that you're able to move past the hurt, this can be a good time to
speak with a therapist or counselor in order to mend the wounds of
any past relationship that might have caused you to feel paranoid
or anxious about current relationships.

Talk to him about why you don't trust him. Use tact, but be honest
with him. Guys prefer blatant honesty to constantly avoiding,
embellishing, or twisting the subject. If you talk to him about it,
not only will it make you feel better, but his trust in you will be
likely t increase because he'll feel that, even though you don't
trust him, you had to courage to come out and talk to him about it
anyway. Whatever his response, your courage in speaking so clearly
makes you a very good and honest person.

Go the extra mile to increase his trust in you. Be honest, caring,
understanding, and trustworthy yourself, before asking someone to do
the same. Don't gossip about him and don't be condescending or
negative about him to other people; it will get back to him and will
only make things harder for you to fix. Open up a little more
yourself; this is especially important if you've been keeping your
concerns and most intimate self from him.

* Keep the line of communication open, and let him know what is
going on in your life. You don't have to tell him about every time
that you stub your toe, or what you ate for breakfast yesterday,
but do tell him things. Tell him funny (or sad) stories about your
past and encourage him to do the same.

Just because he looks doesn't mean he wanders Learn to let little
things go. This step is one that is easily overlooked but is vital.
Remember that there may be genuine, non-harmful, and even
laugh-worthy reasons for why things have happened that caused you to
mistrust him. What is important to a guy may not be what is important
to a girl, and he may simply have thought nothing of it, while you're
busy blowing it all out of proportion. A simple request to explain
the situation will suffice in that case. Forgetfulness is a big one
with many guys. It's unintentional but it can be infuriating. For
example, maybe he just forgot to tell you that he was going out with
his friends the same night you wanted to borrow his car. Maybe you
didn't tell him, so there was no reason for him to even get that
there was an issue; even if you did tell him, maybe it was when he
was focused on doing something and he just didn't hear you properly.
Whatever the reason, find it out from him before assuming it from
within. You'll know whether or not the answers you're given ring true
and you can work from there. If they do ring true, let go, let go,
let go! Give him the benefit of the doubt and don't assume that he is
cheating on you or even not telling you things.

* Remember that your boyfriend is only human, and _will_ forget
things without meaning to. If it was important, remind him gently
instead of cussing him out. If it wasn't important, let it go and
remember that the little thing fall-outs that go un-blamed can
prevent the enormous fight that would have resulted otherwise.

Hold yourself to the same standard before unleashing your anger.
Have you always remembered absolutely everything? Do you always
listen with absolute clarity? Do you like it when someone suggests
that you're not to be trusted? It is important to be compassionate
in a relationship and that includes placing yourself into the
situation he's in before you approach it. At all times, remain calm
and level-headed; shouting and berating any person does nothing to
change the situation and can simply deepen the problems.

Take the time to create a firm and lasting bond with your boyfriend.
Go on fun and romantic dates with each other, engage in activities
outside of the bedroom, and don't be serious all of the time.
Happier relationships are ones in which there is a lot of room to
move, a lot of laughter, and a great deal of trust. In fact, the
more trust, often the tighter the bond you'll create. The less
trust, the more likely your relationship will end up laden with
suspicion and dysfunctional behaviors. Embrace your inner (and more
trusting) child, recognize the little, sweet things in life, and
help your boyfriend to do the same:

* Go to the park and have him push you on the swings.

* Have a pillow or tickle fight.

* Go to a restaurant and share a plate or a drink with each other.

* Visit a zoo and have fun looking at all the animals.

* Tease him, ever so gently, and let him tease you back. Couples
that can handle teasing one another in a fun, kind way, tend to be
couples that can handle each other's criticism and enjoy each
other's love.

Learn the art of small talk. Sometimes telling each other "I love
you, I love you, I love you, coochy coo" becomes a little too
demanding and one-way. And too many deep and meaningfuls can make
each of you resent hanging around each other for fear of when the
"next big crisis" is about to crop up. Brighten up your time
together by indulging in small talk as a way of filling in the
moments where you're just spending time together in each other's
company, without expecting anything of one another.

Last but not least, realize what you gain by loving in trust. While
trust does expose us to the potential of another person's betrayal,
the opposite is worse – to never trust a person and to never learn
what it feels like to have that trust reciprocated and blossom would
be unthinkable. Acknowledge that trust encompasses fear of being
hurt and yet understand that not being trustful will end up harming
your happiness, rather than guarding it. And trust can protect your
health; research has shown that people with greater trust are
healthier and more humorous![1] [1] Realize that trust doesn't only
let go of the other person, it also lets go of you, opening yourself
to the possibilities that this time, you have connected with someone
who will reciprocate the trust you've placed in him.

And if you're still unconvinced, keep in mind these lovely words from
Dick Sutphen:
"Love me without fear,
Trust me without questioning,
Need me without demanding,
Want me without restrictions,
Accept me without change,
Desire me without inhibitions,
For a love so free...
Will never fly away."

!! Video !!

!! Tips !!

* Try to be understanding and accepting when the little things come
up. Your boyfriend will notice and appreciate the special
relationship that the two of your share all the more for it.

!! Warnings !!

* Be aware of what your boyfriend is doing and don't be completely
blind to his fall-outs. In other words, be trusting but not naive.
Trust is a two-way reality. Give of it but don't allow it to be
abused. If he is behaving suspiciously and strangely, talk to your
girlfriends, or someone you know you can trust about your
concerns. Having a sounding board of someone else can help you to
work through the concerns realistically.

* If he really is cheating on you, find someone who is more
deserving of your trust. If you feel like this happening again and
again to you, revise the type of boyfriend you keep falling for.

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Show Your Boyfriend You Care

* How to Show Your Love to Your Boyfriend

* How to Build Trust in a Relationship

* How to Regain Trust in Someone

* How to Trust a Boyfriend Who Is Unfaithful

!! Sources And Citations !!

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How to Tie a Barrel Hitch

How to Tie a Barrel Hitch

A barrel hitch is a simple but effective knot for suspending
objects by forming a sling around the object, which supports
it from below and from the sides. It is often used to hoist
cargo aboard ships.[1] [1] The barrel hitch keeps an object
vertical, while its sister knot, the barrel sling, suspends
an object on its side.[2] [2] In this article, you'll learn
how to tie a barrel hitch.

!! Steps !!

* Loosely tie an overhand knot in a long rope, leaving plenty of
free rope at the ends.

Where the rope crosses itself in the middle (see the red dot), grab
the strand and pull it towards you.

Lay that piece of string down near the center of the loop. Place
your object on top of it.

Slowly draw the rope up at the working and fixed ends to form a
sling around the object. Tie the working end off using a bowline
knot, tightening the sling to secure it.

!! Warnings !!

* Though the object can swing loosely, sharp jerking movements can
easily cause the barrel hitch to dislodge.

!! Things You'll Need !!

* Rope

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Tie a Double Bowline Climbing Knot

* How to Tie a Rethreaded Figure of 8 Climbing Knot

* How to Tie a Square Knot

* How to Tie a Quick Release Knot (Highwayman's Hitch)

* How to Tie a Clove Hitch Knot

!! Sources And Citations !!

!! Article Tools !!

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[2] http://bemoreconfident.info/#_note-1

How to Make a Heart Shaped Cutter from a Plastic Straw

How to Make a Heart Shaped Cutter from a Plastic Straw

If you're looking for a charming decoration for a
dish for Valentine's Day or a child's birthday,
this delightful heart shaped cutter fashioned
from a plastic straw will meet your needs. It
doesn't take long to make and it's an ideal tool
for creating little heart-shaped foods to adorn
the table. Here's how to make it.

!! Steps !!

* Flatten one end of the straw [1]. At this flattened end, measure
out a length of about 1cm (0.39").

* Cut the straw, as shown in the diagram. Make
an incision about 1cm (0.39") from the end. Only cut a slit into
the straw, not all the way around.
At the point of the incision, bend the end piece
inward across the top. You are aiming to make a
heart shape [2], as depicted in the image.

* Looking at the heart shape from the top.

* Slide a thinner straw inside the cut straw up
to the place where the heart has been created. This inner straw
will become the tool by which you push out the heart-shaped food
piece.
Find the food that you'd like to make into
heart shapes. Push the cut end of the straw
into the food [3]. Pull it back out again when
the food has been cut and is sitting inside the
straw.

* Cheese [4] makes an excellent choice as it is
soft and easy to cut.

* If the food is too thick, slice it more
thinly.

* After cutting, push out the heart shape using
the slender straw you've inserted earlier to release the food
piece from the straw.
If you'd like to make heart shapes within
hearts, experiment by cutting heart shapes in
different sizes of straws.

* Another alternative is to make a hole in a
food and squeeze a sauce or jam [5] into the hole. Simply press
the heart-shaped end of the straw into the food and pull out the
food piece, leaving a heart-shaped hole. Then fill with another
food.

* *For example, the egg image shows ketchup [6] squeezed into
the heart-shaped holes. And how about strawberry jam [7] squeezed
into heart-shaped cut into in a sweet cake?

!! Tips !!

* When there are no thick straws, a slender straw will do. Push out
the shape with a toothpick.
[8] For example, 'Yokan' (Red bean jelly of Japanese
traditional suites) image shows these heart-shaped.

*Yōkan* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Y%C5%8Dkan [9]

!! Warnings !!

* Since plastic melts when heated, don't cut the straw using
anything too hot.

!! Things You\'ll Need !!

* Plastic straw used for bubble tea/tapioca
(13mm/0.51" diameter)

* Plastic straw, thinner (straight, 6mm/0.23"diameter)

* Scissors

* Toothpick (optional)

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Decorate a Gift With Plastic Straws [10]

* How to Make Hearts from Plastic Straws [11]

* How to Make a Bird out of a Plastic Straw [12]

* How to Make a Flower from Plastic Straws [13]

* How to Make a Paper Napkin Flower With a Plastic Straw [14]

* How to Make a Heart Shaped Pizza [15]

* How to Make a Heart Shaped Cake [16]

!! Article Tools !!

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[1] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-an-Orca-%28Shachi%29-from-a-Plastic-Straw
[2] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Heart-Shaped-Pumice-Candle-Holder
[3] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Homemade-Food
[4] http://www.wikihow.com/Grate-Cheese
[5] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Red-Raspberry-Jam
[6] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:HeartBreadPie_300.jpg
[7] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Simple-and-Fresh-Strawberry-Jam
[8] http://www.wikihow.com/Image:Yo-hearts_649.JPG
[9] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Y%C5%8Dkan
[10] http://www.wikihow.com/Decorate-a-Gift-With-Plastic-Straws
[11] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Hearts-from-Plastic-Straws
[12] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Bird-out-of-a-Plastic-Straw
[13] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Flower-from-Plastic-Straws
[14] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Paper-Napkin-Flower-With-a-Plastic-Straw
[15] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Heart-Shaped-Pizza
[16] http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Heart-Shaped-Cake

Friday 28 January 2011

How to Make Your Blog Content Scannable

How to Make Your Blog Content Scannable

I want 'YOU' to read my blog! Apart from fantastic content, making
your blog text scannable has just about everything to do with getting
your blog read. Web readers won't linger longer than needed, so it
pays to make your content scannable for your readers, which sometimes
means letting go of some of your own preferences in favor of those of
the reader.

Basically, scannable content is writing or text that *stands out*. It
is the headers, the font and format highlights, the keywords, and the
visual cues. When reading online, your eyes jump to finding the
easiest things (apart from images, although those matter too). In this
article, you'll get a quick rundown on how to make your blog content
scannable.

!! Steps !!

Get their interest with a good 'hook' Pay attention to the title of
your blog. Don't put lots of thought and effort into your blog and
blow off the title. That will leave your great article... unread.
First impressions really matter, and titles are the "hook" to get
your reader interested. Even if you spend a long time getting the
title "just so", the rewards for your effort will be better.

* Think about how the title will look in the RSS feed. What titles
make you click on RSS headings? Aim for the curiosity, interest,
and even question angles.

* Keep the title as simple as possible.

* If you use shocking, controversial, or big claim titles, make sure
the content meets the promise.

* Think about meeting a need. Titles that express what people often
worry or think about are popular. For example, "Losing weight
without trying" would interest a lot of people!

* Look at it from the viewpoint of starting with the conclusion. The
idea of this is to lead with the essential point you're trying
make, allowing the remainder of the article to expound upon it.
Making the point clear from the outset is better with web writing
than leaving the ah-ha! moment until the conclusion. Remember,
your reader may never get to the end to discover your pearls of
wisdom. Give more up front to avoid your readers dashing off
before reaching your brilliant finale.

* Use headings. The wonderful thing about headings is that they help
to guide your writing initially (fill in this bit, then this
bit...) _and_ they allow your reader to quickly look through the
body of the post to see if the read is something they want to
pursue further. Headings draw the eyes downwards,[1] [1] which is
just what you want your reader to do when reading on screen.

Example of a numbered list style Make lists. Lists break up large
blocks of daunting text into manageable bits. Look around the
Internet and you'll see that just about everyone uses lists in some
type of way to get their message across.

* Indeed, although not a blog, wikiHow uses bulleted lists, as you
can see from the style used right here. Whether bulleted or
numbered, lists allow your eye to quickly run down the list of
points.

* Lists carve out the text for you, something that makes screen
reading a lot more enjoyable – and fast.

* Lists get your articles and posts linked to and read more than
essay style posts; research done by Darren Rowse and Chris Garrett
has proven this.[2] [2]

Rely on good formatting. Bold, italicize, and underline your
text, without overdoing it. Use these elements of formatting to
_emphasize_ points. And changes in the size, style, or color of
font can help make content scannable.

* Like using highlighter, if you go overboard with it, it no longer
serves its purpose.

* Underlining should be used with care because it can lead the
reader to think they can use it as a link and they'll get
frustrated when it doesn't open to a new page.

* Some people groan inwardly at bolding or italicizing in places
where you wouldn't see it in a book. Getting used to this
different style can take a leap of faith but it helps to remember
that the Internet is not a book and the rules differ because
reading on a screen differs.

* Block quotes are neat. Just as they're used in magazine and
newspaper articles, block quotes can highlight a particularly
juicy, interesting, or profound part of your post, making the
reader keen to dig deeper to find out what provoked that quote.

* Use links, but don't overwhelm your reader with them. While a
certain amount of links are desirable, you can lose your reader to
them too.

* _ Give your readers something interesting to look at Use
images. Remember, a picture is worth a thousand words and it
certainly helps to make a text 'heavy' blog more interesting.
Write short paragraphs. Three to five sentences is fine and
sometimes, you can even get away with less. Shorter paragraphs
also have the benefit of encouraging a reader to keep reading a
longer post because each bite sized chunk is easy to digest.

* Leaving space is good. Don't seek to cover every part of the post
– allow white space to form a regular part of your post's
overall appearance.

Keep your word count down low. Don't let your writing run away
from you. Mark Twain once said: "If you want me to give you a
two-hour presentation, I am ready today. If you want only a
five-minute speech, it will take me two weeks to prepare."_
Finely crafted less words can take a lot longer to produce than a
spiel that rolls off your keyboard without nary an editorial
input. You'll get better at writing pithier copy without strain
as time goes on but for now, put in the effort to learn how to
keep the writing shorter and the message punchier.

* The key element is to reread it several times and anything,
anything at all, that doesn't make sense, sound right, or add to
it, _comes out_.

* Read your copy out loud. Nothing substitutes for reading out loud;
you'll pick up errors you haven't spotted reading silently and
you'll note rambling that isn't so evident from reading.

* Enjoy the rewards of working on scannable content. The benefit of
making a blog post scannable is that your readers are more likely
to stick around and even spend time reading your longer posts. It
may feel like hard work initially – and it is – but once
you're in the habit, you'll wonder how you could ever have done it
any other way.

!! Video !!

!! Tips !!

* As with anything in life, there will always be exceptions. Know
your readership and its preferences and expectations. If you're
writing profound analyses about social issues, longer may prove
better but you'll need to be sure that your readers are interested
in lengthy perusal of deep topics. If you do have consistently
long posts, consider breaking them down to several pages, with
links to each page at both the top and bottom of the post.

!! Warnings !!

* Be prepared to change your approach to blog layout when it seems
that what you're currently doing isn't resonating with readers.
While that may mean more effort now, it's definitely worth it in
the long run. For current readers, you might like to explain why
you keep making format or layout changes to help them bear with
you as you aim to improve their user experience.

!! Things You'll Need !!

* Blog

* Layout and formatting knowledge – borrow some relevant books if
you're not sure what styles are available

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Work Your Way Through Blogging Procrastination

* How to Start Blogging in Your Senior Years

* How to Learn About Micro Blogging

* How to Become Famous from Blogging

* How to Facilitate Your Blogging

* How to Earn from Blogging

!! Sources And Citations !!

* HowToMakeMyBlog.com,
http://www.howtomakemyblog.com/how-to-write-blog-content/make-your-blog-content-scannable-and-sticky/
– research source

* Darren Rowse and Chris Garrett, _Problogger: Secrets for Blogging
Your Way to a Six-Figure Income_, pp. 81-83, (2008), ISBN
978-0-470-24667-2 – research source

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How to Choose a Lens Aperture (F Stop)

How to Choose a Lens Aperture (F Stop)

One of the most important settings on any
adjustable camera is the size of the hole (known
as the "aperture") through which light passes on
its way from the subject, through the lens, to
the film. The size setting of this hole,
customarily referred to as the "f/stop" in
reference to a standard measurement or simply the
"aperture", determines depth of field, manages
the effect of certain lens imperfections, and can
add certain special effects such as spiked
"sunstars" around bright highlights. Here's how
to choose the best one.

!! Steps !!

Familiarize yourself with some of the basic concepts and terminology.
You'll need to know these in order to make sense of the rest of the
article.

*Aperture [1]* or *stop*. This is the adjustable hole through which
light passes on its way from the subject, through the lens, to the
film (or digital sensor). Like the pinhole in a pinhole camera [2],
it blocks rays of light except those that would, even without a lens,
tend to form an inverted image by passing through that central point
to a corresponding point in the opposite direction on the film. With
a lens, it also blocks rays of light that would pass through far from
the center, where the lens glass may less closely approximate
(usually with various easy-to-make spherical surfaces) the shapes
that would focus it perfectly (usually much more complex aspherical
surfaces), causing aberrations.

* Because every camera has an aperture, usually adjustable, and if
not at least has the edges of the lens as an aperture, the
aperture size setting is what is normally called the "aperture".

* _ f/ numbers are a ratio of the diameter of your aperture
compared to your lens. Hence, a larger number is a smaller_
aperture.*F-stop* or simply *aperture*. This is the ratio of the
focal length of the lens to the size of the aperture. This kind of
measurement is used because a given focal ratio produces the same
image brightness, requiring the same shutter speed [3] for a given
ISO setting (film speed or equivalent sensor light amplification)
without regard to focal length.
*Iris diaphragm* or simply *iris*. This is the device most cameras
use to form and adjust the aperture. It consists of a series of
overlapping thin metal blades that can swing toward the center of a
hole in a flat metal ring. It forms a central hole that is perfectly
round wide open, when the blades are out of the way, and constricts
by pushing the blades toward the center of that hole to form a
smaller polygonal hole (which may have curved edges).

* Most SLR cameras [4] only close down the iris diaphragm, making it
visible from the front of the lens, during an exposure or when the
depth-of-field-preview function is activated.

* *Stopping down* means to use a smaller, or (depending on context)
a relatively small aperture (large f/ number).

* *Opening up* means to use a larger, or (depending on context), a
relatively large aperture (small f/ number).

* *Wide open* means to use the largest aperture (smallest f/number).
*Depth of field* is the specific front-to-back area, or (depending
on context) the scope of the front-to-back area that appears fairly
sharp. A smaller aperture increases depth of field and decreases
the extent to which objects outside the depth of field are blurred.
The precise extent of depth of field is somewhat subjective because
focus drops off gradually from the precise distance of focus, and
the noticeability of defocus depends on factors such as subject
type, other sources of lack of sharpness, and viewing conditions.

* A relatively large depth-of-field is called *deep*; a relatively
small depth-of-field is called *shallow*.

*Aberrations* are imperfections in a lens's ability to focus light
sharply. Generally speaking, less-expensive and more-exotic types
of lenses (such as superwides) have more severe aberrations.

* Aperture has no effect on linear distortion (straight lines
appearing curved), but it often goes away toward the middle of a
zoom lens's focal-length range, and pictures can be composed to
avoid drawing attention to it such as by not putting prominent
obviously straight lines such as on buildings or horizons close to
the frame edges, and it can be corrected in software or by some
digital cameras automatically.

* *Diffraction* is a basic aspect of the behavior of waves passing
through small openings which limits the maximum sharpness of all
lenses at smaller apertures.[1] [5] It becomes increasingly
apparent past f/11 or so, making a great camera and lens no better
than a so-so one (albeit sometimes one exactly suited for a
specific need such as great depth of field or a long shutter speed
where lower sensitivity or a neutral-density filter is not
available).

Understand depth of field. Depth of field is, formally, _the range
of object distances within which objects are imaged with acceptable
sharpness [6]_. There is only one distance at which objects will be
in _perfect_ focus, but sharpness drops off gradually in front of
and behind that distance. For a short distance in each direction,
objects will be blurred so little that the film [7] or sensor will
be too coarse to detect any blurring; for a somewhat greater
distance they will still appear "pretty" sharp in the final
picture.[2] [8] The pairs of depth-of-field marks for certain
apertures next to the focusing scale on a lens are good for
estimating this latter measure.[3] [9].

* Roughly one-third of the depth of field is behind the focus
distance, and two-thirds is behind (if not extending to infinity,
since it is a phenomenon relating to the amount by which light
rays from an object have to be bent to converge at a focal point
and rays coming from far distances tend toward parallel.)
Depth of field drops off gradually. Backgrounds and foregrounds will
appear slightly soft, if not in focus, with a small aperture, but
very blurred [10] or unrecognizable with a wide aperture. Consider
whether they are important and should be in focus, relevant for
context and should be a little soft, or distracting and should be
blurred.

* If you want great background blur but do not have quite enough
depth of field for your subject, focus on the part that will draw
the most attention, often the eyes.

Using a longer focal length and a smaller aperture defocuses
backgrounds just as well as a longer focal length; compare shots
taken at 50mm at f/1.8 (top), and 200mm at f/5.6 (bottom) Depth
of field generally appears to depend on, in addition to aperture,
focal length (longer focal length gives less), format size
(smaller film or sensor [11] size gives more, assuming the same
angle of view, i.e., equivalent focal length), and distance
(there is much less at close focus distances).

So, if you want shallow depth of field, you can buy a super-fast lens
[12] (expensive), or zoom in (free) and set even a cheap
smaller-aperture lens wide open.

* The artistic purpose of depth of field is to deliberately have the
entire picture sharp or to "crop [13] depth" by diffusing
distracting foreground and/or background.

* A more practical purpose of depth of field is to set a small
aperture and pre-focus the lens to the "hyperfocal distance" (the
closest at which the depth of field extends to infinity from a
given distance; see a table or the depth of field marks on the
lens for the aperture chosen) or to an estimated distance, to be
ready to take a picture quickly with a manual-focus camera or a
subject moving too fast or unpredictably for autofocus (in which
case you'll need a high shutter speed too).

* *Remember that you normally won't see any of this through your
viewfinder (or on your screen as you're composing.* Modern cameras
meter with the lens at its widest aperture, and only stop down the
lens to its selected aperture at the moment of exposure. The
depth-of-field preview function usually allows only a dim and
imprecise view. (Disregard any odd patterns in the focusing screen
view; they will not appear in the final picture.) What's more,
viewfinders [14] on modern digital SLRs [15] and other autofocus
cameras don't even show the true wide-open depth of field with a
lens faster than f/2.8 or so (it's shallower than it looks; rely
on autofocus, not subject to this limitation, when possible). A
better option on digital cameras [16] is to simply take the
picture, then play it back and zoom in on your LCD to see if the
background is adequately sharp (or blurred) enough.

* Understand the interaction of aperture and instantaneous lighting
(flash). A flash [17] burst is normally so short that the flash
component of an exposure is affected only by aperture. (Most 35mm
and digital SLRs have a maximum "flash-sync" flash-compatible
shutter speed; above that only a fraction of the frame would be
exposed due to the way in which their "focal-plane" shutter works.
Special high-speed-sync flash modes use a rapid burst of weak
flashes, each exposing a fraction of the frame; they greatly
reduce flash range and so are rarely helpful.) A wide aperture
increases maximum flash range. It also increases effective
fill-flash range by increasing the proportionate exposure from a
flash and reducing the time during which ambient light is allowed
in. A small aperture may be needed to prevent overexposure in
close-ups due to a minimum output below which a flash cannot be
reduced (indirect flash, which is inherently less efficient, can
help in this situation). Many cameras can adjust the balance of
flash and ambient lighting with "flash exposure compensation". A
digital camera is best for complex flash setups because the
results of instantaneous bursts of light are inherently
non-intuitive, even though some studio flashes have "modeling
lights" and some fancy portable flashes have modeling-light-like
preview modes.
Test your lenses for optimal sharpness. All lenses [18] are
different and are better shot at different apertures for optimal
performance. Get out and shoot something with lots of fine texture
at different apertures and compare the shots to figure out how your
lens behaves at various apertures. The object should be all
essentially at "infinity" (30 feet or more with wide-angles to
hundreds of feet with tele-lenses; a distant stand of trees is
generally good) to avoid confusing defocus with aberrations. Here's
some hints as to what to look for:

* *Nearly all lenses have lower contrast and are less sharp at their
widest aperture, especially towards the corners of your image.*
This is especially true on point-and-shoot and cheaper lenses.
Consequently, if you're going to have detail in the corners of
your pictures that you want to keep sharp, then you'll want to use
a smaller aperture. For flat subjects, f/8 is typically the
sharpest aperture. For objects at varying distances a smaller
aperture may be better for more depth of field.

* _ Falloff, which is darkening towards the edges of a picture,
is common when shooting lenses wide-open.*Most lenses will have
some noticeable amount of light fall-off wide open.* Light
fall-off is where the edges of the picture are slightly darker
than the centre of the picture. This can be a good_ thing for many
photographs, especially portraits [19]; it draws attention towards
the centre of the photograph, which is why many people add falloff
in post [20]. But it's still good to know what you're getting.
Falloff is usually invisible after about f/8.

* Zoom lenses can vary depending on how far in or out they are
zoomed. Test for the above things at a few different zoom
settings.

* Diffraction makes almost every lens's images softer at f/16 and
smaller apertures, and conspicuously softer at f/22 and smaller.

* All of this is just something to think about for optimum clarity
of a picture [21] that already has as good a
composition--including depth of field – as possible, and which
will not be much more grossly marred by insufficient shutter speed
causing camera-shake or subject blur or noise from excessive
"sensitivity" (amplification).

* Don't waste film investigating this – check your lenses on a
digital camera, check reviews [22], and in a pinch assume
expensive or prime (non-zoom) lenses are best at f/8, cheap simple
ones such as kit lenses are best at f/11, and cheap exotic ones
such as superwides or lenses with wide or tele adapters are best
at f/16. (With an adapter lens on a point and shoot, stop down as
much as possible, perhaps by using the camera's aperture-priority
mode [23] – look in its menus.)

Understand aperture-related special effects.

*Bokeh*, a Japanese word often used to refer to the appearance of
out-of-focus areas, especially highlights because those appear as
bright blobs. Much has been written about the details of those
out-of-focus blobs, which are sometimes brighter in the middle and
sometimes a little brighter at the edges, like donuts, or some
combination of the two, but at least one author rarely notices it
except in bokeh articles. Most importantly, out-of-focus blurs are:

* Much larger and more diffuse at wider apertures.

* Soft-edged at the widest aperture, due to the perfectly round hole
(the edge of a lens, rather than an iris blade).

* The shape of the diaphragm opening, when not at the widest
aperture. This is most noticeable at wide apertures because they
are large. This might be considered unattractive with a lens whose
opening does not closely approximate a circle, such as a cheap
lens with a five- or six-bladed diaphragm.

* Sometimes half-moons rather than circular toward the sides of
images at very wide apertures, probably due to one of the lens
elements not being as huge as it would have to be to fully
illuminate all parts of the image at that aperture, or weirdly
extended due to "coma" at very wide apertures (which is pretty
much only an issue when taking pictures of lights at night [24]).

* Catadioptric (mirror) lenses give donut-shaped
bokeh.Prominently donut-like with mirror-type tele lenses, due to
a central obstruction.

* *Diffraction spikes* forming *sunstars*. Very bright highlights,
such as light bulbs at night or small specular reflections of
sunlight, will be surrounded by "diffraction spikes" making
"sunstars" at small apertures (they are formed by increased
diffraction at the points of the polygonal hole formed by the
iris). These will either have the same number of points as your
lens has aperture blades (if you have an even number of them), due
to overlapping of opposite-sides' spikes, or twice as many (if you
have an odd number of aperture blades). They are fainter and less
noticeable with lenses with many, many aperture blades (generally
odd lenses such as old Leicas).

Get out and shoot [25]. Most importantly (in terms of aperture at
least), Control your depth of field. [26] It's as simple as this: a
smaller aperture means more depth of field, a larger aperture means
less. A larger aperture also means more background blur. Here's some
examples:

* The left shot was done at f/2, the right shot was made at
f/16. Note how the letters furthest from the camera are brought
into focus by stopping down.*Use a small aperture to force more
depth of field.*

* Depth of field is shallower the closer you are to your
subject. This shot was made at f/6.3, and depth of field is
perhaps a millimeter or two.*Remember that depth of field becomes
shallower the closer you get.*If you\'re doing macro photography
[27], for example, you might want to stop down far more than you
would for a landscape. Insect photographers [28] often go way down
to f/16 or smaller, and have to nuke their subjects with lots of
artificial lighting.
Large apertures force backgrounds to be thrown out of focus; this
is great for portraits, as in this shot made at f/2.*Use a large
aperture to force a shallow depth of field.* This is great for
portraits [29] (much better than the silly automatic portrait
scene modes), for example; use the largest aperture you have,
lock your focus on the eyes, recompose and you'll find the
background is thrown out of focus and is, consequently, made less
distracting.

Remember that opening the aperture like this will cause faster shutter
speeds to be chosen. In bright daylight, make sure you aren't causing
your camera to max out its fastest shutter speed (typically 1/4000 on
digital SLRs). Keep your ISO low to avoid this.

* Shoot for special effects. If you're photographing lights at
night, have adequate camera support, and want sunstars, use a
small aperture. If you want large, perfectly rounded bokeh spots
(albeit with some incomplete circles), use a wide-open aperture.

* Shoot for fill-flash. Use a relatively large aperture and fast
shutter speed if necessary to mix flash with daylight so the flash
isn't overwhelmed.

* Shoot for optimum technical image quality. If depth of field is
not of primary importance (which would generally be the case when
pretty much everything in the picture is relatively far from the
lens and will be in focus anyway), the shutter speed will be high
enough to avoid blur from camera shake and the ISO setting will be
low enough to avoid severe noise or other quality loss (which
would generally be the case in daytime), you don't need any
aperture-related gimmicks, and any flash is powerful enough to
balance with ambient light adequately, set the aperture that gives
the best detail with the particular lens being used.

* Once you've chosen the lens aperture, try making the most of it
with aperture-priority mode [30].

!! Video !!

!! Tips !!

* _ The real world is not a boring test subject. Use any of your
apertures if that\'s what you need.If careful aperture selection
will be very important to your picture and you have an automated
camera, aperture-priority mode [31] or program-shift (scrolling
through the combinations of apertures and shutter speeds
automatically determined to give proper exposure) are convenient
ways to set it.

* Sometimes you have to compromise your choice of aperture to allow
an adequate shutter speed or acceptable film speed or
"sensitivity" (amplification) setting, or just let your camera
choose something for you to get the shot. Do it.

* There's plenty of wisdom embodied in the old saying: f/8 and don't
be late_. f/8 typically gives sufficient depth of field for most
still subjects _and_ it's where 35mm and digital SLR lenses are
typically at their sharpest (or close to it). Don't be afraid to
use it – or program mode (a good mode to leave your camera on
for whatever might pop up) – for interesting subjects that won't
necessarily stand still for you to adjust your camera.

* Softness from diffraction and, to a lesser extent, defocus (which
can create odd patterns rather than softness alone) can sometimes
be mitigated by processing such as the "unsharp mask" function in
the GIMP and Photoshop. This will strengthen soft edges though it
cannot create fine detail that was not captured, and creates harsh
erroneous detail if overused.

!! Warnings !!

Make "sunstars" with bright points of light not so bright as the sun.

* Don't point a tele-lens, especially a very fast or long tele-lens,
at the sun attempting to make "sunstars" or for any other reason.
You may damage your eye, or the camera.

* Don't point a cloth-shutter non-SLR camera, such as a Leica,
toward the sun except perhaps briefly to take a picture handheld,
and even then only with a small aperture set. You may burn a hole
in the shutter, which would require a somewhat expensive repair.

!! Related WikiHows !!

* How to Clean a 35mm Film Camera and Lens [32]

* How to Buy Lenses for Your Digital SLR [33]

* How to Adapt if Your Lens Is Too Sharp [34]

* How to Buy a Good Used Camera Lens [35]

* How to Attach a Lens to the Nikon DSLR [36]

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